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June 06, 2010

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Hope

There is a secret #8. For those of us who are of a faith belief that says that once you are in it, you can't ever get out of it - you have to work on it. This secret keeps us in abusive marriages and strengthens all the other secrets. For if you can't get out, then you had better deny how bad it is, minimize it, focus on him, try overwhelming him with love to improve things, etc. And if all your friends are in the same position, how on earth can you justify leaving and where will the support come from? So many of the healing truths in this website converge with what I am taught by my faith community, but I don't understand why this secret is allowed to ruin our lives.

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