I’ve been working with a woman who can neither give up her abusive partner nor be with him.
She can’t be with him because she can no longer blind herself to the fatal flaws in the relationship. But she can’t let him go because of the good moments they share together every so often.
She still fails to see the mechanism at work there, that the good moments are the bait on his hook that keeps her biting.
Perhaps she fails to see that because she cannot bear to confront her own motivation. She needs to believe that those good moments are a taster of all that she can still have with this man, if she just tries a little harder and makes a few more sacrifices.
Even, or maybe I should say especially, she is tiring of her own stubbornness. Yet she cannot let go.
Why? CLICK HERE to find out why and how she can start to let go right now.